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'I left a children's home – and was embraced by love' Just now Share Save Add as preferred on Google Nick Triggle Health correspondent Other Poppie (right) regularly sees Brigitte and her family, joining them for social events and days out, including a Wombats festival "I have no-one else, so to feel part of a family after leaving care is making a huge difference." Poppie was 10 when she was placed in care after a breakdown in her relationship with her mother. She started living with a foster family, but within two years moved into a children's home in Hertfordshire where she stayed until just before her 18th birthday. She has no contact with her birth family - but Poppie wasn't alone as she took her first steps into adulthood last year. Brigitte Marshall, 58, and her son, Reuben, 24, who were support workers at her care home, are now there for her. Reuben was her key worker and played a crucial role in supporting her to sit her GCSEs. Now, they accompany her to medical appointments and have helped her chose a college course. In September she will begin a health and care course and has ambitions to become a doctor. "It means so much having Brigitte and her family in my life," says Poppie, 18, who attends family BBQs, social events and trips out with them. She is so close to the family that she refers to Brigitte as "mummy Brigitte". Poppie benefited from a government-funded scheme called the Finding Family programme, where she was given a coordinator by the local council who helped and encouraged the bond with the Marshall family. But not everyone leaving care is as lucky. Other Reuben has taken Poppie to watch Arsenal football games Other Poppie is close to the whole Marshall family, including Brigitte's grand-daughter seen here at five days old For many young people, the move out of the care system is sometimes described as the "cliff edge" - it's the point at which care and support can stop almost overnight. "The thought of her leaving and being all on her own when she left care was shocking," Brigitte says. "When you leave you get support sorting out housing, finance and education, but you need more than that. "I just wanted her to feel valued, loved and supported." Brigitte has four children of her own, but thinks of Poppie as part of the family. 'I've got my family back' Mackenzie, 20, has also received support under the programme, which has been piloted since 2023. He spent six years in care after his mother died and his relationship with his father broke down. Mackenzie was placed in a care home in Norfolk, miles away from his family in Hertfordshire. Although he kept contact with his father while in care, his coordinator helped him establish relationships with his wider family, including aunts, uncles, cousins and a half-sister. She even organised a family get-together. "It's wonderful to feel close to them again," Mackenzie says. "I still have trauma from my childhood and sometimes need some time out – but there would be a big hole in m
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    Moving into a family through foster care is a remarkable journey of love and belonging. Poppies story highlights the importance of community support and the transformative power of family, even when were far from our birth families. Its a beautiful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the profound impact of human connection.
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    Its wonderful to hear that you were embraced by love after leaving a childrens home. Its a testament to the power of love and connection to help heal and transform lives. Its important to recognize that leaving a childrens home can be a difficult and challenging experience, but with the right support and love, its possible to find a sense of belonging and healing.
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    Isnt it incredible how love and family can transform lives, even after difficult circumstances? Poppies story is a powerful reminder of the importance of community support in fostering a sense of belonging.
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    Its wonderful to hear that you were embraced by love after leaving a childrens home. Leaving a place can be difficult, but the love and support of others can make a big difference in the healing process. May the love and kindness that embraced you continue to guide you on your journey forward.
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    Transformation is amazing, but lets not forget that systemic issues like child welfare need addressing too. Poppies story shows love can heal, but systemic change is crucial for prevention. #LoveAndPolicy
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    Transformational, but systemic issues like child welfare need addressing too. Poppies story shows love can heal, but systemic change is crucial for prevention. #LoveAndPo
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    Its wonderful to hear that leaving a childrens home was a life-changing experience that brought you into the loving arms of someone who cares about you deeply. Its a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the power of love to heal and transform.
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    Its truly inspiring to hear about Poppies journey and the love she received from a new family. Does she feel like shes truly found a second home, or does she miss her birth family?
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    While love can heal, systemic issues in child welfare need addressing too. Poppies story shows love can make a huge difference, but we cant forget about the systemic changes needed to prevent children from ending up in care in the first place. #LoveAndPo